Cowtown Pattie's Texas Trifles

** I recently alerted Time Goes By blogger, Ronni Bennett, to a study I found online regarding the forced government management of elder finances, a "financial driver's license", if you will. She definitely ran with that ball: Big Brother Is Out To Control All Elders' Money. And please note the following true story is not in any form an affirmation of that ominous study's conclusions; it is important to remember the financial decisions made by our family were shaped by choices both in and out of our control, but they were not overseen by some governmental bean counter in D.C.

"Where the market permits planning which results in a reduced net price, a purchaser cannot be faulted for availing himself of the lower price even if he could pay more. In a health care system in which the commodity known as health is bought and sold, there is no reason why any market participant should value another person's property (that is, health) more than his own. Until the United States elevates health care to a moral right, instead of a property right, Medicaid planning is morally and ethically justified." Elder Law Attys Timothy L. Takacs & David L. McGuffey

When my grandmother started going downhill physically and mentally to the point it wasn't safe to leave her alone in the house all day, my aunt (her only daughter) began to investigate how Medicare/Medicaid might be able to help pay for a full time nursing home care. Nursing homes become the only remaining alternative available when families do not have the personal wealth necessary for private duty nursing nor have a family member who can devote 24 hours a day to care giving of an elderly relative.

Medicare coverage for long-term nursing is a joke, and does not hold out an option for more than a hint of in-home care. Nor does it cover much more than a few weeks in a convalescent facility.

Yes, my grandmother owned her home outright, the only true asset she possessed and even that was wasn't worth more than $38,000 in a good market.

Doubly troublesome, my aunt had lived with my grandmother for 30+ years, and had been pretty much her sole caregiver for more than half of those years. The house was home to my aunt as well though her name was not on the deed.

Thus, the question loomed as how to pay for grandmother's care without a forced sale of the house which not only would have wiped out my grandmother's only source of material wealth, but also would have denied my aunt a home she had lived in for many years.

And by this point, my grandmother was not mentally competent to execute legal documents. Luckily for our family, she had signed a power of attorney a few years prior and my aunt could make necessary legal decisions for her.

Some might argue that we were "gaming the system" when we set about to try and preserve the house from being sold to cover medical bills, but in truth, the result was going to end the same - grandmother would spend down every last cent of her assets, and then would be a Medicaid patient inevitably. That $38K hundred-year-old house in a very small dead and dying Texas town wouldn't even cover six months worth of nursing home bills, and my aunt who needed to live near my grandmother would be without a roof over her head.

The cost of long-term care is often catastrophic for elders and their families. So, is it “wrong” to help the elderly protect their assets by engaging in Medicaid planning?

For our family, the short answer was no.

Though we didn't use lawyers, we did avail ourselves of been-there, done-that advice of friends and family, and managed to keep the house intact for my aunt who continues to live in the home. My grandmother received adequate (though far from stellar or even desired) care and my aunt was able to keep working and provide the other essentials not covered by Medicaid (i.e. better quality adult diapers, etc.). Trust me when I say it is important to visit an elder loved one who is living in a nursing home; the work is hard with low-pay, and the nursing home staff stays more attentive to patients whose families are personally involved in the day-to-day care.

Contrary to the perceptions of some, Medicaid is not just a lifeline
for America’s poorest citizens. Rather, for America’s seniors, Medicaid is now also very much a middle class program. Funded jointly by the states and the federal government, Medicaid today pays nearly two thirds of all nursing home and long-term care bills. So when Medicaid is in trouble, so too is middle America.

The Economic Downturn & Its Effects on Seniors, Testimony to the Senate Special Committee on Aging (2002) (opening statement of U. S. Senator Larry Craig, Ranking
Member of the U.S. Senate Special Committee on Aging), http://aging.senate.gov/events/hr79lc.htm.

I wouldn't wish nursing home care on anyone, but unfortunately, that becomes the only alternative for the majority of American families. Did we behave unethically by not selling my grandmother's home?

Would I consider someone who owned say, a half-million dollar home and another half-million or more in cash holdings a deadbeat citizen if they sought ways to avoid "spending down" their wealth? Good question, but I seriously doubt someone with that amount of wealth wouldn't be able to afford better in-home care and most likely would have expensive long-term assisted living insurance coverage; is it truly an apples to apples comparision between that individual and someone with far less monetary means?

I suppose it could be determined by whether you see the issue in black and white, or in shades of gray.

I can only say I didn't lose any sleep over our family's decision.